Heather says
Today is pretty simple, it’s a pen and paper exercise. We’re going to create the soft menu plan for our Thanksgiving dinner. Why do I suggest this method instead of getting everything set in stone right away? This allows time to go over the menu a couple of times and really think about it.
Here is my Thanksgiving Menu Plan printable, I’m not a graphic designer and it shows. (Heck, it even still has the old logo on it. That said, it works)Â The menu plan printable has three columns, one for your ideal menu, another for your guests’ ideal, and finally we have the great compromise.
Why?
If it’s going to make too many people upset that there isn’t any green bean casserole, will it really hurt you to provide green bean casserole?
Hate on sweet potatoes all you want, some people will be sad if they aren’t there. Â You may be cooking and it may be your home, but you’re helping create a memory for each person that shows up. Be a little flexible and a little accommodating when you need to be.
Please note I said a little. This leads me to the next consideration.
Have you ever noticed that sometimes holiday meals tend to feel like a potluck?
This tends to happen when recipes are chosen at random. Meat? Check. Vegetable? Check. Starch? Check. The seasonings in one dish may not complement the flavors of another which leads to the potluck effect.
Back in 2012, when I last did the great Turkey Day photo shoot, I had an Italian theme:
- Antipasti
- turkey -brined in apple cider, parsley, lemon, peppercorns, and salt
- shallot rosemary gravy
- mushroom risotto
- sausage stuffed mushrooms
- tri-color roasted potatoes with rosemary and parmesan
- Brussels sprouts with prosciutto and parmesan (this is just a straight substitution of prosciutto for the bacon)
- butternut squash with rosemary (optional drizzle with balsamic vinegar)
In this example, the turkey has a fairly neutral seasoning, the shallot and rosemary gravy is where we start to get interesting. The rosemary in the gravy is also in the potatoes and butternut squash. The savory nature of the meal shows in the risotto, the stuffed mushrooms, and in the earthy flavor of roasted Brussels sprouts.
Read more about my 2012 menu plan, my 2011 Thanksgiving menu plan, and as far back as my 2009 menu plan.
Typical Thanksgiving at Heather’s
- deep fried turkey
- gravy
- company mashed potatoes
- collard greens
- shrimp and andouille sausage cornbread dressing
- traditional sage dressing
- butternut squash
- broccoli salad with dried cranberries
- Brussels sprouts with bacon
The usual Thanksgiving menu around here has a Lowcountry / Cajun theme with the Andouille sausage in the cornbread dressing showing up again in the collard greens. The cranberries in the cranberry sauce show up as dried cranberries in the broccoli salad and again in the apple and sage dressing. (I’ll be experimenting with gf bread to see if it can create a dressing like experience, if not, it’ll be stricken from the menu, with regret)
Here is a post with some resources for vegetarians.
If you are having guests bring sides, talk to them about the recipes as they are assigned. Not in a micro-manager I have to control everything way, but rather to discover what the main flavors will be. When you know what people are bringing you can adjust the recipes you choose to ensure there is a flow of flavor throughout the meal.
What will you be serving for Thanksgiving 2015?
We had our first Canadian Thanksgiving this year. We had to get little creative as many of the things that were traditional for us could not be found, like gluten free stuffing. This is what we came up with
Pineapple glazed ham
Stuffing mashed potatoes (mashed potatoes that taste like stuffing)
Squash and apple dish that our friends brought
Green beans
cranberry sauce
Pumpkin pie
We get to celebrate again in America in a couple of weeks and I am looking forward to it as it will be the first time seeing our families since moving to Canada as missionaries in January 🙂
I plan on getting a loaf of Udi’s this weekend and experimenting. I love cornbread stuffing but traditional sage is one of my favorite’s and I will miss it if I can’t replicate it.
Until last year, my sister hosted several Thanksgivings in a row because her husband always had to work the day before and the day after. She cooks our family’s traditional Thanksgiving (what my mom always made growing up) and gave guests the option to bring something that they wanted. It usually worked except for the year my SIL bought creamed celery – it was the first year they were married and we didn’t want to offend her so everyone ate it and ever since we all talk about how disgusting it was. 🙂 The biggest debate every year is whether or not marshmallows go on the sweet potatoes. My sister likes marshmallows so she puts them on and I would scrape them off my portion. This year there will be no marshmallows in the sweet potatoes since I am cooking and she can just deal with it.
There’s a *looks around to see if anyone who might tell on me is looking* jelled cranberry salad thing that I just… wow.
Not a good wow.
This will also label me a huge snob: creamed celery has a place and that’s as an ingredient in another recipe. On its own, it would have to be made with exceptional ingredients to be good and that’s not really a potluck situation if that makes sense.
Good natured sibling rivalry is one thing, there are people out there who would blow it out of proportion and sometimes it’s just not worth it. That’s more what I was referring to.
Enjoy hosting!